Odilia Carmen Chirica

Singer, writer, speaker, coach, counsellor, muse... mostly a thinker - simply just BEING.

One may think it's the unmet needs and desires the cause of broken relationships. And we are tired and mostly unwilling to satisfy someone else's needs before or in the detriment of our own. 
Needs and desires make us walk and even run on purpose at times. But fears.. Oh my! We hide, run, jump, climb, walk on bodies... whatever is needed. To escape our fears. 
And what are fears anyway? Well, unintegrated experiences from or since early childhood. Things we haven`t completely understood that hurt and frightened us and that we never want to repeat. But guess what? They will be repeated on and on and on... Because we live in their shadows. We project from them and perceive through them. We want to escape them so badly that anything as close as a resemblance will trigger us into great discomfort and stress. 
Say, one is afraid of spiders for example... God forbid you joke with "a spider on you!" unless you want one to have a heart attack or run like a lunatic. Same way one can be afraid of any number of things. Lack of freedom, lack of love, lack of purpose, lack of finances, lack of emotional stability, lack of communication, lack of harmony, lack of  time, lack of respect, lack of basically the opposite of whatever is heavily imprinted in one`s subconscious as negative experience. 
And so it's the lack of understanding of another one's fears,  that is the issue. Instead of judging whether what we are (seemingly) requested to be or do (or are being blamed for) is right or wrong or even reasonable, trying to understand what the other person is running away from might actually resolve the confusion. Since only then we can see what exactly in our being, actions and behavior serve as a trigger for another one's fears as well as observe and dismantle our dramas and programs by confronting, understanding and releasing our own fears. 
Cause only by understanding where, when and why the monster in our closet comes out, can we reveal it is only but a shadow we are scared of.
... to your awareness, In Lak`ech,  #OdiliaCarmen

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Ever wonder why even the almighty, seemingly careless, leaves you into the oblivion of most excruciating pain? Why though you scream from the depth of your being for a bit of light you are left into complete darkness? It`s because you are not truly willing! To listen! 
You don`t seek for THE answer. Yo seek for a solution of your own construction. Your request is for the problem to stop so that your pain may go away. But what you aren`t ready to be shown is that YOU are THE problem! 
You are wounded by your own perceptions of right and wrong! What must or musn`t be! You beg for light while you hold on darkness in the clench of your teeth. You cling to pain and keep on agonizing into your own delusion. Expanding darkness by extending faults and blames to all those, human and gods alike, that seem unwilling to help you. And you keep on reasoning... with your own limited mind, over how entitled you are to happiness. But.. are you really?
Well, let me tell you a thing. The answer will come when you are ready to listen! When you let go of all constructs of mind, when you unclench your teeth and release all darkness and pain that resides in you.. that`s when true light will take over!
Let there be LIGHT! .. within and without us all!

... to your awareness,In Lak`ech,  #OdiliaCarmen
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Decoded my day of birth and found my Galactic Signature to be White Overtone Mirror. Lots of things made sense (to me) as for who I am, what my challenges are, and what is my purpose in life. If you`d like to know about yourself and your coding as well, use the Galactic Signature Decoder to find which of the following signatures you are.

"By playing the role of your galactic signature, your allow yourself - your mind, body and spirit - to vibrate to that particular frequency and you broadcast it out to everyone around you. This is your gift to the world."

Red Dragons:
White Winds
Blue Nights:
Yellow Seeds:
Red Serpents:
White World Bridgers:
Blue Hands:
Yellow Stars:
Red Moons:
White Dogs:
Blue Monkeys:
Yellow Humans:
Red Skywalkers:
White Wizards:
Blue Eagles:
Yellow Warriors:
Red Earths:
White Mirrors:
Blue Storms:
Yellow Suns:
If this made sense to you so far, you can further explore your relationships signature, your personal theme year or the moon phase you were born under. Enjoy!

...to your realization,  In Lak`ech,  #OdiliaCarmen

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Based on Jung`s Categories (Introverted or Extroverted, Intuitive or Sensing, Feeling or Thinking and Perceiving or Judging) my personality type results describe me as an INFJ (Idealist Portrait of the Counselor) with characteristics from an ENFJ (Idealist Portrait of the Teacher).

Take this Quiz and find out in which of the 4 Temperaments your personality type falls into:
  1. Guardians - Supervisor (ESTJ); Inspector (ISTJ); Provider (ESFJ); Protector (ISFJ).
  2. Artisans - Promoter (ESTP); Crafter (ISTP); Performer (ESFP); Composer (ISFP).
  3. Idealists - Teacher (ENFJ); Counselor (INFJ); Champion (ENFP); Healer (INFP).
  4. Rationals - Fieldmarshal (ENTJ); Mastermind (INTJ); Inventor (ENTP); Architect (INTP).
...to your realization, In Lak`ech,  #OdiliaCarmen
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Soul mates cannot be searched for around or in far away places. They don`t fit within our criteria of best match perceived by limited thought process. However, they will be there in perfect timing. As soon as you have found Yourself!
...to your realization, In Lak`ech,  #OdiliaCarmen


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Love between two people. I still have problem to define "what is right" in this context, then I was looking for another point of view. (M. L.)
The marriage was over because of both of us. I was lost and she was not strong enough, she failed to bring me back to myself. (W. K.)
The "right" relationship in my beliefs requires not a perfect mind/physical/soul match but a dedication to love beyond the limits of our common beliefs and personal needs. A process of evolution and break through the social, cultural, religious, human conditionings, etc...
A dedication to support each other through common understanding or one another when one fails to see clearly or understand the "right" way, for the purpose of growth, ultimate freedom and happiness. First and foremost achieving individual balance and happiness and only after happiness in two as a couple. If that can be possibly achieved together, if not, and if the process of growth and learning is ended, then accepting to part ways in search for a new process.
...to your awareness, In Lak`ech, #OdiliaCarmen
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We seek. We find. We process (compare, analyze, comprehend) similarities and differences. We reach to a higher perspective. The one that reveals to us that differences are mere illusions, that all is connected, all is one. Life is not better anywhere else (whatever corner of the world, that is).
The same struggles goes within each human being. We might see them on different scales, in different colors, but only because we judge them from the outside. We measure them from our standing point, which is always a comparing point.
What is within cannot be measured from without. Thus what is within may be found only when the search without is finalized.
When the process is ended what is within becomes one with what is without. The rest is creation. 
When peace, love, truth is within, you cannot experience the opposites without. No matter what seems to happen around you. No matter where you are. No matter whom you encounter.
It is the journey of every human being. (I dare to say, of every living being.) None can escape it. And none can transfer its end results (the knowledge of the one who experienced, that is). Thus none can reach its end before their processing. We can however share our journey. Our thoughts, findings and discoveries. Then the journey might seem easier, faster, happier... Trust everyone`s journey! Trust your journey! And let`s share!

...to your awareness (dedicated to Herwig D.), In Lak`ech, #OdiliaCarmen
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